Dear Annie: My boyfriend of three years blindsided me with a breakup

Dear Annie: My serious boyfriend of three years ended things with me very unexpectedly last week. He told me it’s him and wasn’t me, but that’s such a cliche. When I pushed him for an answer, he told me he feels like our spark has just died. He also explained he has not been feeling like himself lately and has decided to go to therapy and heal himself from his childhood trauma, as he believes this is the root cause of his issues with love and relationships.